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Bucket 17 of 20 · 1,000 Things

50GEN X THROWBACKSFOR WOMEN OVER 50

I grew up on mixtapes and home-by-the-streetlights. I'm bringing some of that back.

50 ideasAbout 6 minutesBuilds your short list as you go
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Read all 50.

Mixtapes, movie nights and the old crew.

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Tap Yes!, Maybe someday or Not my thing.

First instinct wins.

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Your short list builds itself.

It's waiting at the bottom. Copy it, pin it, start planning.

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A note from Grace

REMEMBER WHEN THE WHOLE WEEKEND WAS YOURS?

We grew up with a house key on a shoelace and nobody checking where we were until dinner. We made our own fun because nobody was going to make it for us.

Somewhere between careers and carpools, I stopped doing the things that made me feel like me. These fifty are me getting some of it back.

Some are silly. That's the point. Tap the ones that make you grin.

Grace

MY THROWBACK SHORT LIST0 Yes!0 Maybe someday0 of 50 sortedSee my list
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PRESS PLAY

Rewind it with a pencil if you have to.

  1. 01

    See my favorite '80s band live before it's too late

  2. 02

    Make a mixtape playlist for every year of my life

  3. 03

    Hunt down the cassettes I owned and build the collection again

  4. 04

    Buy a Walkman on a whim and listen to a whole album, no skipping

  5. 05

    Go to a retro music festival and dance like nobody's filming

  6. 06

    Watch the music videos of my youth on a big screen with friends

  7. 07

    Visit a vintage record shop and buy one album on vinyl

  8. 08

    Attend a tribute band show and sing every word loudly

  9. 09

    Make a playlist of slow-dance songs and play it at my next party

  10. 10

    Write down the ten songs I want played at my 100th birthday

Grace Uncommon enjoying a morning coffee

I've been figuring it out since I rewound cassettes with a pencil.

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Save it for the day you need it

Pin it to your throwback board, send it to the friend who was there, or keep it for a Friday.

02

ROLL THE CREDITS

Same movies. Better company.

  1. 11

    Rewatch the movies that shaped me with someone who's never seen them

  2. 12

    Host a John Hughes movie marathon with junk food from the era

  3. 13

    Go to a drive-in movie and bring the lawn chairs

  4. 14

    Take a road trip to a famous '80s or '90s movie filming location

  5. 15

    Throw a Saturday morning cartoon breakfast with sugary cereal

  6. 16

    Rent a VHS player and watch the tapes in my closet

  7. 17

    Dig into the behind-the-scenes stories of my favorite teen TV shows

  8. 18

    Learn the choreography to a music video I secretly loved

  9. 19

    Start a Gen X book club reading novels from my teen years

  10. 20

    Reread the teen magazines and paperback series I hid under my bed

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03

AFTER SCHOOL

Home by the streetlights. Mostly.

  1. 21

    Go roller skating like it's 1985

  2. 22

    Spend an afternoon at a retro arcade and chase my old high score

  3. 23

    Host a latchkey-kid reunion with frozen pizza and after-school TV

    Grace's pick
  4. 24

    Plan a mini golf and milkshake night like it's a Friday in 1987

  5. 25

    Play the board games and handheld games of my childhood again

  6. 26

    Plan a mall walk through the last great shopping mall near me

  7. 27

    Learn to solve the Rubik's Cube I never cracked in 1982

  8. 28

    Go to a skate park and finally try the thing I watched others do

  9. 29

    Ride my bike at dusk until the streetlights come on, just because

    Grace's pick
  10. 30

    Teach a grandkid or young friend the games I played outside

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We didn't have helmets. We had instincts.

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Save it for the day you need it

Pin it to your throwback board, send it to the friend who was there, or keep it for a Friday.

04

THE OLD CREW

The ones who knew me with feathered hair.

  1. 31

    Find my old yearbook and call someone I signed it for

  2. 32

    Host a slumber party for grown women, prank calls optional

  3. 33

    Start a group chat with my high school crew and name it something ridiculous

  4. 34

    Create a mixtape for my best friend and hand it over in person

  5. 35

    Host a trivia night that only Gen X can win

  6. 36

    Go to my high school reunion, even the awkward one

  7. 37

    Write a letter to my 16-year-old self and mail it to a friend

  8. 38

    Recreate my senior portrait, feathered hair and all

  9. 39

    Track down my first-ever concert T-shirt or a perfect replica

  10. 40

    Make a scrapbook of concert ticket stubs and backstage memories

Grace Uncommon walking beside the sea

I've changed more than MTV.

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Save it for the day you need it

Pin it to your throwback board, send it to the friend who was there, or keep it for a Friday.

05

STILL TOTALLY RAD

No explanations offered.

  1. 41

    Throw an '80s prom do-over with all the taffeta it deserves

  2. 42

    Teach a younger friend how to rewind a cassette with a pencil

    Grace's pick
  3. 43

    Recreate my childhood bedroom wall with posters for one weekend

  4. 44

    Take a family photo in full '80s attire, no explanations offered

  5. 45

    Build a time capsule with the stuff my kids or friends think is ancient

  6. 46

    Wear neon to a party where no one asked me to

  7. 47

    Take a class in breakdancing, or at least the worm

  8. 48

    Visit a pop-culture or music museum devoted to my decades

  9. 49

    Make a family tree of my favorite bands and who influenced whom

  10. 50

    Plan a weekend that would make my teenage self scream with joy

MY THROWBACK SHORT LIST

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